dad you would not be happy with any of us right now. i never reslized how much you were the glue of this family till now. Time is flying by quickly. went to visit you today, and seeing your name on the plaqie made ot all too real. The firsy holiday without you is already approaching. no turkey for you on this day, but steak. Mom is doing fine. says she is doing better each day. she will be fine for thanksgiving she is woth her family and I will be with mine. her wish not mine. had hoped we could br a family and after so many years we could have a mesl together. i think you wpuld have been proud of me I apologized, but it made no difference.that is o.k. i love my sister and told her so. ihope this site stayss up foreverso we can keep im touch. miss those times you callef my Jim anf aleaus lookef foteatf to him daying after ypu converdation " give Ursula my love." ;-) love you way up there